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A Speed Limit for Life
by Ed Hays on Sep. 17, 2009
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When I was a kid during the Great Depression, a popular free entertainment for my family — except for the cost of gas which was only ten cents a gallon — was going for a drive in the Nebraska countryside. Driving out of the city we enjoyed looking at the corn, the other crops, and the colorful wildflowers along the highway.
Today, driving isn’t for going on a leisurely ride to look at the landscape, but for getting from one place to another as fast as the speed limit allows. At high speeds, even if we think we are seeing what we pass, we don’t see much. As Mao Tse-Tung said: “If we look at flowers from a galloping horse, even though we may look daily, it is like not having seen them at all.” I’m not promoting driving while gazing out your car windows, but rather to budget beforehand your driving time to allow a few minutes to stop and truly see whatever is along the street or road. The slower you move, the more you see, on foot or in an automobile. So move slower if you wish to see the wonders of life and creation around you.
When speeding through life, deputize me
to arrest myself and sermonize me,
“I caught you speeding. Slow down,”
lest in that whizzing by I miss you.
From A Book of Wonders by Ed Hays
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How to Be a Hero
Perhaps every youth aspires to be a hero, yet this aspiration is often stunted by having to make a living, caring for the needs of a family, and other social duties. To be a hero requires giving a gift, and if you are an average person then the gift you give is specified by your society. However, creative people must craft a particularly unique personal gift to give that usually isn’t the one pre-determined by society. Creative people do not give the typical gift that society expects, and instead give the ultimate gift of themselves to the highest powers of life, to God. Yet as Ernest Becker says, to renounce the world and oneself by placing the meaning of your life before the powers of creation is the hardest thing any person can achieve. It should not be surprising then, that history records only a few truly great heroes. Likewise, it isn’t surprising that the average person, in his or her quest to be heroic, is content to only give those gifts specified by their society.
Inspire me to fulfill my heroic destiny
by not giving society’s specified gift,
but by giving the indispensable gift of myself
to the Amazing Mystery of the Cosmos.
From A Book of Wonders by Ed Hays
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Prayer action suggestion:
When is the last time you gave the gift of yourself? Make it a regular, conscious practice.
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More due to not having much
More due to not having much money all my life than just desire (but desire is a huge part of it) I have tended to make most of my gifts. Not only do I make the gifts I give (not all but most) but I also decorate with my painting and so on. I can't say that what I do is more valuable than what someone else does however. My dad told my brother-in-law once that if he doesn't like being the handyman it's okay. He made enough money to pay someone else to do things for him thereby helping another person feed his family. By making my own stuff I don't help others to feed their families so I see that it works both ways. Everyone however, needs to slow down and enjoy the life they have while they can enjoy it.
C.G. Jung tells us that the
C.G. Jung tells us that the second half of life (say, after 35-40) demands a turning inward and to God. The first years are, I believe legitimately, spent in dealing with things "out there" like education, career, family, and children. In the second half of life we need to set goals. The goals must relate to our relationship with the Divine and this life's approaching end. It is spirituality, but Jung speaks of this necessity as a psychologist. I believe that this issue sits prior to all others. If we deal with it, we are free to surrender to God's guidance. If we fail to deal with it, we are unhappy. We lack wholeness.
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